A Knoxville, Tenn., restaurant owner has drawn cheers and jeers for refusing to serve a state senator whose beliefs she viewed as homophobic.
Republican state Sen. Stacey Campfield told ABC News he went out to brunch at The Bistro at Bijou restaurant on Sunday with some friends after doing a radio show, but the owner of the restaurant quickly approached him, refusing service.
“We were just standing there waiting for a table, and this woman came up to me saying ‘I’m not serving you, I’m not serving you, you hate gay people,’” Campfield said. “‘I said ma’am I’m not a homophobe,’ and I offered to send her links from the CDC website to back up what I said about homosexuality being a dangerous lifestyle, and being a risky behavior.”
Martha Boggs, the owner of the Bistro at Bijou, located on Gay Street, said that she saw Campfield walk in and thought immediately that he was not welcome in her restaurant because of his comments on homosexuality.
“It was one of those spur of the moment things. I didn’t think about what I was doing, but all I did was look at his smug face, and told myself I do not want to serve him. His comments have gone from stupid to dangerous and I think someone needs to stand up to him,” Boggs said.
At the heart of the spat between Boggs and Campfield were the senator’s recent comments that heterosexual sex was safer than homosexual sex and and recently proposed legislation that K-8 schools should only teach about heterosexual sex to students. Boggs said his comments were inappropriate, while Campfield, who is straight, said today that his opinion is backed up by research from the Center for Disease Control.
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On the radio show, however, Campfield said that it was “virtually impossible” to contract HIV/AIDS through heterosexual sex.
“My understanding is that it is virtually — not completely, but virtually — impossible to contract AIDS through heterosexual sex…very rarely [transmitted],” he said.
Boggs said she was happy to stand up to him.
“The most dangerous statements he made was that it’s virtually impossible for people to get AIDS through heterosexual sex, and I told him to leave because I was defending the rights of the community and pointing out to an elected official how inappropriate his opinion was. I think Mr. Campfield is a bully so I just stood up to a bully.”
You know what's way more dangerous than having homosexual sex? Listening to this moron. It's "virtually impossible" to contract AIDS through heterosexual sex? Are you serious? Unbelievable. I hope no young kids were listening to this radio show.
Hooray to Martha Boggs for standing up to this lunatic!
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This @!$%#ing moron should be removed from congress, but he won't because the people who voted for him don't give a crap that he just effectively told a bunch of people its OK to have unprotected sex without fear of HIV.
I expect this kind of thing from 3rd world politicians, but an American just said that.
Holy @!$%#.
Heterosexual transmission happens commonly.
Heterosexual women are in the most vulnerable group of possible HIV victims.
Call the national AIDS and HIV crisis line if you dare doubt it.
Even for heterosexual men, if they have unprotected sex with a person who was recently infected or if they their HIV has progressed significantly, the odds of transmission can be VERY HIGH.
Like way more likely than NOT, especially if the infected person has a co-infection of chlamydia, gonorrhea, or some kind of vaginitis (all of these things are extremely common in prostitutes but are also rather common in sexually active people who don't use protection.)
Even if the virus level is relatively low, and the person is not taking HAART, a co-infection of some kind can profoundly raise the odds of HIV transmission.
This guy needs to be punished by the legislature. He's supposed to be a public servant, not a @!$%#ing biological terrorist.
If enough people believe this ignorant bull@!$%#, the rates of infection in this country would EXPLODE.
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“It was one of those spur of the moment things. I didn’t think about what I was doing, but all I did was look at his smug face, and told myself I do not want to serve him. His comments have gone from stupid to dangerous and I think someone needs to stand up to him,” Boggs said.
Kudos to Martha. She has the balls to stand up to people like this pig (Campfield) that endorses discrimination against gay people. Next, we all should get out out pitchforks and chase them all out of office and then out of town. People like this man does not deserve to be in office, and people like this bigoted and homophobic pigs all need to be thrown out of office asap.
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Backed up by the CDC huh?
Did any of you ever call the CDC's emergency line? Once I called due to a squirrel bite which drew blood,and the other time I don't even remember what it was for. Both times,they simply told me to go to the ER,and they would not give any info about anything,no matter how petty the question I asked was.
I learned at the ER that squirrels do not transmit rabies to humans because they can't for whatever reason. The CDC wouldn't even tell me that much.
This guy wants to mention that the 'his opinion is backed by the CDC' huh? If the CDC backs his opinion,then why doesn't he state it as a fact. Easy. They obviously don't.
These freaks of nature willl say anything regardless of whether it is even true or not. That in itself is delusional. That is a FACT.
Definition of DELUSION
1
: the act of deluding : the state of being deluded
2
a : something that is falsely or delusively believed or propagated b : a persistent false psychotic belief regarding the self or persons or objects outside the self that is maintained despite indisputable evidence to the contrary; also : the abnormal state marked by such beliefs
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Sometimes its just better to refrain from acknowledging people of bigotry in this situation, in my opinion.
I feel that deeds such as the waitresses are not always the best solution to the way you may feel about someone's words. Let society deal with the misjudgments of those who are guilty.
Just like if a restaurant owner refused to serve a homosexual, what else may be accomplished by the same act on a homo-phobe? There's no solution in this routine.
Its more negative publicity in my opinion for the gay community.
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I learned at the ER that squirrels do not transmit rabies to humans because they can't for whatever reason. The CDC wouldn't even tell me that much.
Squirrels can't give you rabies? Huh. You learn something new every day.
Not that it matters, really. I won't be confronting a rabid squirrel anytime soon. You think they went crazy for nuts before...
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I feel that deeds such as the waitresses are not always the best solution to the way you may feel about someone's words.
She is the owner, waitress? maybe, but she is the owner of the establishment.
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As a general rule, the smaller the animal, the less likely it will transmit rabies. But the reason is because the animal is more likely to die from an biting attack from a rabid animal when they are smaller.
It's possible for a squirrel to infect a person, but it's unlikely.
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The FOX is a well known carrier of rabies, which renders it victims prone to violent outbursts and hallucinations.Speaking of, anybody catch Cavuto today?
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Chris-735081 said:
This @!$%#ing moron should be removed from congress,
Luckily, he is only a STATE senator.
ReyRik said:
Just like if a restaurant owner refused to serve a homosexual, what else may be accomplished by the same act on a homo-phobe? There's no solution in this routine.
A homosexual cannot change who they are. An ignorant state senator is only a book or a website or a good talking to away from a cure. You cannot compare the two.
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She was wrong to do that. It is a public restaurant. You can't make politics out of it. What if she were to refuse service to Negroes or Jews or cripples?
Viners complained vehemently when a flower shop refused service to an Arheist. Only one standard is allowed. We can't have it both ways.
If you don't like a person, don't have dinner with him but you can't kick him out of a public place.
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She was wrong to do that. It is a public restaurant. You can't make politics out of it.
Tell that to Ron Paul and his crazy ass libertarian minions who believe that any enterprise should be allowed to conduct their business in any way and with whom they choose.
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This is one reason, among many, why I would NOT vote for Ron Paul.
It is wrong to ban people from public places because you don't agree with their politics or lifestyle. It is not the American Way.
We had that once in this country and I don't want a return to that way.
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This all comes down to the happy little delusion that people choose their attractions. "Don't be attracted to the same sex, kids... straight love is safer."
It must be wonderfully satisfying (and safe!) to live such an ignorant self-assured lifestyle.
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but all I did was look at his smug face, and told myself I do not want to serve him
Who is the bigot here? Think about it for a minute. Discrimination based on anything is STILL discrimination.
Now, on a different subject -
the Bistro at Bijou, located on Gay Street
The irony is hilarious.
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as a lesbian myself ....... I applaud her ethics , but as some have stated ... it boarders to much on insane Paul thinking.
I think instead of booting his ignorant ass from the restaurant she should have given a big wet sloppy kiss to one of her female friends there in front of him.
or better yet get two of the male waiters to do it.
He may have left on his own.
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She is the owner, waitress? maybe, but she is the owner of the establishment.
Well whatever, the more power to her.
A homosexual cannot change who they are. An ignorant state senator is only a book or a website or a good talking to away from a cure. You cannot compare the two.
Practicing discrimination on the grounds of other's discrimination is still discrimination. Only now you can safely call yourself a hypocrite.
A website or book is nice, but I don't think it would be that easy.
Who is the bigot here? Think about it for a minute. Discrimination based on anything is STILL discrimination.
Oh yes, just like calling the KU KLUX KLAN racist is discrimination based on beliefs! Pffffft! Come one, bigots throughout history have pulled the “you call me out on my bigotry therefore you are a bigot” card since the first humans decided he didn’t like the Neanderthals because they didn’t look like them.
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She was wrong to do that. It is a public restaurant. You can't make politics out of it. What if she were to refuse service to Negroes or Jews or cripples?
Maybe she is a Ron Paul supporter?
Besides it isn't like there are any Federal laws against discrimination based on sexual preference like your above examples.
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You know what puts me off my appetite? Eating with bigots.
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She was wrong to do that. It is a public restaurant. You can't make politics out of it. What if she were to refuse service to Negroes or Jews or cripples?
As far as I know, @!$%#s aren't a protected class. If they were, every bar in America would have to let in those jerks they previously barred.
It's not a matter of banning someone for color, religion or handicap which they have no control over, it's banning them for divisive things they've said or done.
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#1.2:Kudos to Martha. She has the balls to stand up to people like this pig (Campfield) that endorses discrimination against gay people. Next, we all should get out out pitchforks and chase them all out of office and then out of town. People like this man does not deserve to be in office, and people like this bigoted and homophobic pigs all need to be thrown out of office asap.
I totally agree with you, A. And more and more of us need to sand up to these jerks and say: "Who in the hell do you think you are to decide for somebody else? Who gave you that power? We are not going to take it anymore. You better check yourself before some else check you!"
That is how I feel about the matter. I have always been one to speak up, and am glad that others are finally having the guts and fortitude to stand up also. It is just a matter of time when people get totally FED UP with being violated and abused.
Enough is enough. I feel that the narrow-minded, homophobic, racist, ignorant republicans are in for a rude awakening at election time. Hopefully, they and their teabagger friends will all bite the dust and experience the unemployment lines at their nearest district headquarters.
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What the senator commented may not be appropriate because it will somehow hurt the feelings of others but to some extent it was true. HIV can not be contracted by heterosexual sex unless the other party has already contracted it, through sex or other means. One example would be for addicts who do not practice sterilizing their needles and thus causing the transfer of HIV or aids. Other causes would be people who were in need of blood transfusion and who have been given blood with HIV. Normally blood are tested but not all blood stations do the job thoroughly because of the added cost. In a lot of instances, donors are merely asked whether they have such an ailment and if they say no, the blood is not tested anymore. Others causes would be kissing a person with HIV when you have a cut or lesions in your mouth where the virus could penetrate the blood system. HIV cannot be transmitted through saliva alone. These are just some examples but under normal circumstances, heterosexual sexual practices will not result in HIV or AIDS because the penetration is through the normal channels that is intended for it. When penetration is done through other means then if the party's concerned is not careful and really, really clean up to remove bacteria's and other germs that is present in this other channels then the chances of contracting HIV or AIDS will increase extemporaneously.
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Oh yes, just like calling the KU KLUX KLAN racist is discrimination based on beliefs! Pffffft! Come one, bigots throughout history have pulled the “you call me out on my bigotry therefore you are a bigot” card since the first humans decided he didn’t like the Neanderthals because they didn’t look like them.
I know, silly, right? This is no different than refusing to serve the KKK.
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HIV can not be contracted by heterosexual sex unless the other party has already contracted it, through sex or other means
The same applies to homosexuals.
These are just some examples but under normal circumstances, heterosexual sexual practices will not result in HIV or AIDS because the penetration is through the normal channels that is intended for it.
Oh, how WRONG and misinformed you are!
HIV is found in blood and other body fluids such as semen and vaginal fluids. It cannot live for long outside the body, so to be infected with HIV you need to allow some body fluid from an infected person to get inside your body. The virus can enter the body via contact with the bloodstream or by passing through delicate mucous membranes, such as inside the vagina, rectum or urethra.
http://www.avert.org/can-you-get-hiv-aids.htm
Really, Marcel, it would help if you did even a little bit of research before you post -- but not from sites like NARTH or World Nut Daily or Family Research Council; try to find some reliable websites or other unbiased sources.
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Erin,
Did I not mention that unless the other party has already contracted HIV? Thus, your comment about HIV being found in blood and other body fluid such as semen and vaginal fluids just justify what I just stated. If both sexual partners has no HIV virus or is not a carrier then it is virtually impossible based on latest science to contract HIV through normal sexual intercourse.
It is this very uninformed concept that regardless of heterosexual acts a person can contract HIV that gets other people who do not have it contract the virus. Play it safe and you will find that you will not get AIDS unless of course if it is through other means. Choose your partner correctly, no HIV or AIDS, clean up before and after and use the normal channel of penetration and enjoy the pleasure of good company with no need for a payback later on with your life and other members of your family as interest for the mistake.
Others causes would be kissing a person with HIV when you have a cut or lesions in your mouth where the virus could penetrate the blood system.
Marcel,just curious. Where did you get that info from?
Also,to add to your means of transmission... It is more likely to be transmitted from a male to a female during sex. Female to male sexual HIV transmission is a very low probability. With needle use,hepatitis is also a large transmission risk and it is much more contagious and transmits much easier than HIV,a LOT easier.
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Thus, your comment about HIV being found in blood and other body fluid such as semen and vaginal fluids just justify what I just stated. If both sexual partners has no HIV virus or is not a carrier then it is virtually impossible based on latest science to contract HIV through normal sexual intercourse.
Marcel... what are you trying to say - your language is a bit broken.
Are you actually saying that unprotected heterosexual intercourse won't result in the transmission of AIDS/HIV if one of those participating has it?
Really? Because that is laughable.
. If both sexual partners has no HIV virus or is not a carrier then it is virtually impossible based on latest science
UMMM NO sh!t Sherlock. If neither person has the disease, of course they aren't going to spread the disease to eachother. WTF are you talking about?
Others causes would be kissing a person with HIV when you have a cut or lesions in your mouth where the virus could penetrate the blood system.
Saliva doesn't carry enough of the disease to transmit.
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If both sexual partners has no HIV virus or is not a carrier then it is virtually impossible based on latest science to contract HIV through normal sexual intercourse.
That applies to homosexuals, too.
It is this very uninformed concept that regardless of heterosexual acts a person can contract HIV that gets other people who do not have it contract the virus.
Who said anything like "regardless of heterosexual acts"? The point is that HIV/AIDS can be transmitted by having unprotected sex if one or both of the partners is infected -- whether they are heterosexual or homosexual.
You do not need to preach your gospel to me, Marcel. I am clearly better-informed about this subject than you are, so the chances that I or anyone else would follow your misinformed advice are slim to none. BTW, since I have been married for 30 years to the same man, and we have always been faithful to each other, our chances for contracting the disease are extremely low.
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shucklack,
Read your first statement. It is not what I commented on. In fact it is the reverse of what I stated. Please refer back to #1.23 and #1.26. I think you are just being emotionally carried by the issue that you misinterpreted the comments.
Erin,
I am sorry that I am not as clear as to my post #1.26. I mean to say that if both straight persons not just heterosexual. I forgot that some people do connote heterosexuality to both mean straight and homosexual acts. When I state normal intercourse, I mean man and woman and of course the use of condoms definitely will decrease the chances of HIV but accidents do happen. I myself never did use any condoms because I choose my partner with rigid scrutiny, of course without her knowing it, and often spends months before I even go to bed with her. I never did like short time and quickies. It is not for me. Because for me, I real good time is a time well spent.
This was before I met my wife of 40 years whereby I stayed and did not pursue any women anymore.
Read your first statement. It is not what I commented on. In fact it is the reverse of what I stated. Please refer back to #1.23 and #1.26. I think you are just being emotionally carried by the issue that you misinterpreted the comments
I think it's mostly because deciphering what you are saying is difficult as English may not be your first language or your rhetorical style is just overly convoluted - which is why I asked. Because the way in which you made the statement didn't really make sense unless you were indicating an inverse as true.
I forgot that some people do connote heterosexuality to both mean straight and homosexual acts.
As an example... this line... doesn't make sense. Are you referring to anal/oral sex, which can be part of both straight or homosexual sex?
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Practicing discrimination on the grounds of other's discrimination is still discrimination. Only now you can safely call yourself a hypocrite.
No...sorry...nice try. She was simply calling someone out as a jackass. There's no discrimination, no prejudice. He had already demonstrated himself to be a jackass and he is not part of a larger group of people known as jackasses. I can't be guilty of discriminating against you based on your individual, personal behavior -- a trait you are fully in control of, by the way -- I can only discriminate based on your race, your gender, your sexual orientation, your physical ability, your physical appearance (like the color of your skin, hair, eyes, whether you are tall or short, fat or thin, etc.), the things you cannot change.
This state senator can stop being a jackass at any time. Plenty of people do it.
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HIV can not be contracted by heterosexual sex unless the other party has already contracted it, through sex or other means.
Are you somehow under the impression that HIV spontaneously occurs in homosexuals?
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J morris 1.19
There are laws against refusing service to people based on handicap, religion and creed. Do we now have to have public places where only like minded, similar people may congregate?
According to your logic we should have gay only, white only, black only, jew only. But now it gets tricky. Only gay jews..only white gay jews.
Come on, let us seperate politics and philosophy from doing our jobs.
Like the pharmacist who refused to dispense the morning after pill. Or the bus driver who kicked people off his bus because he objected to their clothes ond on and on.
We should be better than being petty and divisive all the time.
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There are laws against refusing service to people based on handicap, religion and creed. Do we now have to have public places where only like minded, similar people may congregate?
She has the right not to serve bigots in her establishment, bigots aren't a protected class. You can put lipstick on a pig and call it 'religious' all you want, but it's little more than bigotry using religion as an excuse.
I think kicking someone out over differences in opinion can indeed be petty, but there is nothing petty about kicking out a bigot... it's simply the right thing to do.
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Like the pharmacist who refused to dispense the morning after pill. Or the bus driver who kicked people off his bus because he objected to their clothes ond on and on.
Generally, the number of pharmacies within a reasonable distance from you are limited. And, typically, there are not competing bus lines along any particular route.
Conversely, there are plenty of restaurants where a bigot can get a meal. Just not the one in this article. :-)
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If this is NOT a public held company, the owner has a RIGHT to employ the
NO SHOES, NO SERVICE rule.
In this case, NO COMMON SENSE, NO EATING HERE
- 5 votes
Restaurants are considered "public accommodation," and as such cannot refuse service to anyone without a good reason, like an abusive/disruptive patron, or someone who may not have paid his/her bill in the past. Disliking someone's politics or views is not sufficient reason to refuse service.
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Actually, as long as you don't discriminate based on one of the protected classes:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protected_class
You are within your legal rights to deny service.
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you arm-chair lawyers wouldn't be welcomed in my restaurant either. Why do you presume to give people a false statement of the law? ErinNJ. Are you a lawyer? Lawyers who give false advice on the law should be disbarred and people who practice law without a licence should be sued by the bar association.
I know of no law that prevents a restaurant owner from refusing to serve, and ousting, a homophobic bigot who puts the population at risk by spreading false information about medicine and disease. If someone else can cite such a law, I'd be interested in reading it.
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Douglasq,
No, I am not inferring whatsoever that HIV occurs spontaneously mostly on homosexuals. However, it has been noted that there are more instances of HIV when two male persons does intercourse using other channels. Note please I said more instances, not it occurs every time. It depends on how the couple approach the act. I have known some homosexuals who is not and will never be HIV positive because they approach homosexuality with care and with positive attitudes.
Note however that a lot of HIV sufferers are caused by blood transfusion, using dirty needles in the cause of drug addicts and pleasure seekers, and by making children when the parents are already HIV sufferers. These has increased the incidence of HIV or AIDS occurrence far beyond the reach of just abnormal intercourse. Whereas before it occurs mostly in the African countries it has spread worldwide including Asia.
Take note that in countries where normal sexual intercourse and moral character traits are strictly enforced, the presence of HIV or AIDS are minimal.
I disagree with everyone on this one because I do not think she should have discriminated against this poor mentally handicapped individual just because he's obviously retarded. ;P
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he's obviously retarded
Now that would put him in a protected class.
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However, it has been noted that there are more instances of HIV when two male persons does intercourse using other channels.
Unprotected sex, than yes as the anal walls are more inclined to micro-tearing with bad preparation and thus the ability for the virus to enter the blood stream rises but it equally applies to heterosexuals who practice anal sex.
Contagion rates in the Netherlands are some of the lowest in western nations and they have one of the higher rates of open homosexuality on paper, with 10% of their military alone officially registering as "homosexual". Sweden is also in the lowest too.
If you want to get technical, countries with harsh penalties towards pre-marital sex and that have high distrimination against women have low rates too, such as Saudi Arabia, Yemen and Afghanistan but thats mostly because people will, you know, be punished if they are caught being sexual outside of marriage in any way.
I think lower contagion rates are more to do with an educated and safe menatality that is encouraged by the education system and social policies rather than the terrified approach America takes to even saying the word "sex" in class rooms, let alone in regards to homosexual sex.
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What's he doing there? Is he trying to feel the lifestyle change?
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Uhhh Shuk?
Are you actually saying that unprotected heterosexual intercourse won't result in the transmission of AIDS/HIV if one of those participating has it?
Actually,no. If one person has HIV,the other person won't get HIV 100% of the time just because they are having unprotected sex.
Seriously,you CAN'T be THAT 'informationally deprived'...can you?
I meant yes as my answer in #1.46. These folks who think you can acquire HIV,seemingly by sitting on a toilet which someone with HIV did previously,has me pretty confused,make that VERY confused with their thought process.
Either way,heterosexual sex between one person being HIV+ and the other HIV- does not result in the HIV- person acquiring HIV 100% of the time. The circumstances and variables can change,but it IS NOT a 100% transmission rate. I GUARANTEE IT and can back it up with FACTS.
That's right,the F word. I know y'all don't like that one so I don't expect any rebuttal ;)
We REALLY need more education on the HIV subject now that I see some of these thoughts.
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Senator Booted From Restaurant Over 'Homophobic' Views
I thought the liberals were all tolerant folks. I'm so shocked to hear this.
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I thought the liberals were all tolerant folks. I'm so shocked to hear this.
There is no tolerance for hate.
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"I sort of laugh about that kind of stuff, and view it as another example of the left saying they're open to people with divergent points of view until someone has a different point of view,"
And isn't that really it in a nutshell.
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"I sort of laugh about that kind of stuff, and view it as another example of the left saying they're open to people with divergent points of view until someone has a different point of view,"
And isn't that really it in a nutshell.
LMAO!!! You gotta love it when the Repugs try to sneak their points in instead of saying what they mean out loud.
Why don't you peeps just admit that you HATE gays and yet you wanna be accepted by everyone as fine human beings.
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Restaurants are considered "public accommodation," and as such cannot refuse service to anyone without a good reason, like an abusive/disruptive patron, or someone who may not have paid his/her bill in the past. Disliking someone's politics or views is not sufficient reason to refuse service.
I'm pretty sure you are correct. (I'd also hesitate to get my legal advise from Wikipedia!) Perhaps it varies from state to state as so many laws do, but I know it is the case in mine and has been since the Civil Rights movement. After all, you could simply say you refused to serve a black patron because you didn't like his politics or even the pattern of his tie, and how could he or she prove it was really racially motivated?
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After all, you could simply say you refused to serve a black patron because you didn't like his politics or even the pattern of his tie, and how could he or she prove it was really racially motivated?
Ah but in that case you can try to find a pattern of behavior that would tell you if that person really does refuse service based on racial issues and the suit would have merit if the pattern fits.
As it stands, this was just ONE homophobe who was refused service and for a very good reason.
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Oom, I do not get my legal advice from Wikipedia. I am a former paralegal and am currently an assistant librarian, and I know where to research such things. It cannot "vary from state to state," as the law I quoted in #22.7 is federal law, which trumps state laws.
BTW, Andrew, legally it would probably not be considered a "very good reason;" it would be considered arbitrary and therefore illegal.
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BTW, Andrew, legally it would probably not be considered a "very good reason;" it would be considered arbitrary and therefore illegal.
Sorry Erin, it's anything but arbitrary. Hate is not arbitrary. He hates gays, why should he be allowed to eat in a place gays frequent?
Legally she could make the case that he would be a danger to her mostly gay patrons based on what you quoted in #22.7.
I work in hotel business and much like hotels, restaurants depend on repeat business so legally the woman is entitled to watch out for the safety and security of the majority of her patrons.
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Oh and if you're gonna try to question how a restaurant owner would know if a potential patron has some particular views or not, in the case of this guy, his homophobic views are a matter of public record.
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Sorry Erin, it's anything but arbitrary. Hate is not arbitrary. He hates gays, why should he be allowed to eat in a place gays frequent?
Legally she could make the case that he would be a danger to her mostly gay patrons based on what you quoted in #22.7.
How do you know that it's a "place gays frequent" or that she has "mostly gay patrons"? The article says nothing about that; the restaurant is on Gay Street, but that does not mean it is a street of gays.
I worked in the legal field for a number of years, and you are assuming facts not in evidence (as they say).
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How do you know that it's a "place gays frequent" or that she has "mostly gay patrons"? The article says nothing about that; the restaurant is on Gay Street, but that does not mean it is a street of gays.
Ah, I stand corrected. I misread the article and thought that the restaurant identified itself as a gay restaurant the way some bars do.
However, that doesn't change her legal right to refuse service. If there was one single gay patron in the restaurant and she knew he/she was there, she could still make the case that a homophobe who is on record as being a homophobe is a potential danger to this gay patron.
A gay bar could absolutely forbid this guy from entering as well under the same principle. Who knows? The guy could go nuts and start stabbing peeps.
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Oom, I do not get my legal advice from Wikipedia. I am a former paralegal
Erin, you misunderstood. I was AGREEING with you that the restaurant owner broke the law and should be sued, although I didn't realize the law was federal and not just a state law. I was directing that part of my post to the armchair attorney wannabes on this seed.
If there was one single gay patron in the restaurant and she knew he/she was there, she could still make the case that a homophobe who is on record as being a homophobe is a potential danger to this gay patron.
Andrew, that's far fetched indeed. I know people who don't like Jews, but if one of them walked into a restaurant where I was dining, would it make sense for me to insist he be put out because he was somehow a threat to me, as a half-Jew? Lousy opinions, even hateful ones, don't equal actual physical threats.
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The article says nothing about that; the restaurant is on Gay Street, but that does not mean it is a street of gays.
LOL, good one! There are people whose last name is "Gay" as well as lots of women named "Gay". The street could have been named after such a person, 50 years ago.
Assuming facts not in evidence is practically the Newsvine sport.
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Andrew, that's far fetched indeed. I know people who don't like Jews, but if one of them walked into a restaurant where I was dining, would it make sense for me to insist he be put out because he was somehow a threat to me, as a half-Jew? Lousy opinions, even hateful ones, don't equal actual physical threats.
This coming from the woman who spouts pro-rape views so clear that I'm not the only one who has called you on it? Shyeah, that should be taken as gospel truth, no pun intended.
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Andrew, that's far fetched indeed. I know people who don't like Jews, but if one of them walked into a restaurant where I was dining, would it make sense for me to insist he be put out because he was somehow a threat to me, as a half-Jew? Lousy opinions, even hateful ones, don't equal actual physical threats.
Oh and for the record, it wasn't a patron that had the guy kicked out, it was the owner herself and as I said, legally, she can claim that the guy being a homophobe, constitutes a danger to a homosexual patron in the restaurant.
It's not an arbitrary reason because his homophobic statements are a matter of public record and he's not a protected class unless we've amended the constitution to include haters. That would be a zealot's wet dream I'm sure.
Hate doesn't have to be tolerated and should never be tolerated but I'm sure you'll say otherwise.
- 4 votes
This coming from the woman who spouts pro-rape views so clear that I'm not the only one who has called you on it? Shyeah, that should be taken as gospel truth, no pun intended.
Stop lying. I have reported for this. Nothing in my posts could possibly be contrued by a rational person with normal reading comprehension as being "pro rape." If indeed Dinah and Shechem even existed at all, we don't actually know what really happened since there were no witnesses. I gave one possible interpretaton. What's the matter with you?
Do me a favor. If you are actually married, have your wife read through that thread and see if she agrees with you that I am "pro rape." Ask her if ANY woman is "pro rape."
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Do me a favor. If you are actually married, have your wife read through that thread and see if she agrees with you that I am "pro rape." Ask her if ANY woman is "pro rape."
Old news. She read it and she was as shocked as me. She's Christian herself by the way and she was flabbergasted.
- 5 votes
Martha Boggs, the owner of the Bistro at Bijou, located on Gay Street
As an immature man, I do have to point out that the restaurant is located on Gay Street. Sorry. It was a funny coincidence and I couldn't help myself
- 30 votes
Actually, that same thought occurred to me -- I admit I giggled a little.
- 21 votes
Hey, there's nothing wrong with the street being Gay as long as it doesn't try and impose it upon others!
- 8 votes
Hey, there's nothing wrong with the street being Gay as long as it doesn't try and impose it upon others!
I've lived with gay people, and have known a lot of gay folks over the years. I used to live in the gay district of Houston as well.
Never did a gay person 'impose' their gayness on me. I did get asked a number of times, usually politely, if I was interested. I said no I don't go that way, thanks, and took it as a compliment.
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Anyone else suspicious about this Stacey Campfield? He likes to talk about homosexuality, he likes to hang out on Gay Street, he's homophobic. There's an 80% chance this man is a closeted homosexual. If that is true, it's too bad he has to hide his true self by his virulent anti-gay agenda in public.
- 4 votes
I've lived with gay people, and have known a lot of gay folks over the years. I used to live in the gay district of Houston as well.
Never did a gay person 'impose' their gayness on me. I did get asked a number of times, usually politely, if I was interested. I said no I don't go that way, thanks, and took it as a compliment.
I think Sharkey was being ironical. I've also never felt imposed upon by a gay person. It is an irrational fear that people have
- 4 votes
It's to bad these idiots spend so much time worrying about gays when they need to worry about our country.
- 24 votes
And it's too bad people like you don't understand that viewpoint discrimination is just as wrong as any other kind of discrimination. If we continue to surpress thought, we will soon be no better than the North Koreans. You would go ballistic and probably sue if a Republican bartender 86'd you because he didn't like liberals. No wait, a Republican probably wouldn't be dumb enough to do that because he realizes he is business to make money, not to chase away customers he doesn't like.
- 1 vote
And it's too bad people like you don't understand that viewpoint discrimination is just as wrong as any other kind of discrimination. If we continue to surpress thought,
Nope, it's not. The constitution is clear in that we can't discriminate based on race, creed, sexual orientation or national origin not because someone is a hateful homophobe.
In your case for example, I sure as hell would refuse you service if I owned a restaurant, based on your pro-rape stand.
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And it's too bad people like you don't understand that viewpoint discrimination is just as wrong as any other kind of discrimination
What??? That's ridiculous!!! One's point of view is something that can change (and we often hope that it does it he case of ignorance) as opposed to the characteristics of those "protected classes" in American law:
Race
Color
Religion
National origin
Age
Sex
Disability status
Familial status
Veteran status
Genetic information
Religion and familial status don'tt quite fit the "unchangeable" characteristic, but religion is backed up in the BoR and familial status applies specifically to housing.
Can I "discriminate" against someone because of his or her stupidity? That might depend on HOW I discriminate, but try taking a case to court on the basis of being wronged because of your point of view and I assure you that you'll get a lecture about a frivolous lawsuit as the case is dismissed for lack of merit and you are laughed out of court.
And from a personal perspective, I discriminate against these who hold viewpoints I oppose every day. I am even legally free to point out their ignorance and/or stupidity.
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Can I "discriminate" against someone because of his or her stupidity? That might depend on HOW I discriminate, but try taking a case to court on the basis of being wronged because of your point of view and I assure you that you'll get a lecture about a frivolous lawsuit as the case is dismissed for lack of merit and you are laughed out of court.
I could not have put it better myself, more wordy perhaps, but not better. It's nice to meet someone with some reasoning skills.
And from a personal perspective, I discriminate against these who hold viewpoints I oppose every day. I am even legally free to point out their ignorance and/or stupidity.
And bigotry too.
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Absolutely on the bigotry issue, Andrew. I have a personal zero tolerance rule on that one. As much as I want to think bigotry is related to stupidity and ignorance, I've come to understand that it is also due to a sense of "privilege" in some people; a distorted view that some inherent characteristics make certain individuals better than others. How ridiculous!
- 4 votes
Absolutely on the bigotry issue, Andrew. I have a personal zero tolerance rule on that one. As much as I want to think bigotry is related to stupidity and ignorance, I've come to understand that it is also due to a sense of "privilege" in some people; a distorted view that some inherent characteristics make certain individuals better than others. How ridiculous!
Most definitely!!!! Like Christians who think they're the only ones who know the "truth" so they eagerly await the end but not just because they're being supposedly "saved" but because instead, they wanna make a spectator sport of seeing the non-believers get sent to the pit. Hateful SOB's most of them.
- 2 votes
So then Oom...
By your superior logic...
A dress code would be "discriminatory" against people that do not own a collared shirt or a necktie?
The false outrage never fails to amuse the @!$%# out of me...
fail (yet again)
- 2 votes
As much as I sorta agree with the sentiment of the restaurant owner, she is treading on shaky ground by discriminating against someone based on their political views. If I'd owned the restaurant, I might have served the senator the crappiest meal he'd ever been served, instructed my waitress that I'd give her $50 dollars for giving the senator and his entourage terrible service, then charged him double on his bill. And when the senator started to make a scene then she could've brought him up on charges of not paying his tab......or something along those lines.
I'm not familiar enough with civil rights laws to know whether or not the senator could potentially bring charges against her for blatant discrimination. I just don't like the idea that a public servant such as a state senator, regardless of whether they hold political views I agree or disagree with, should be treated in such a manner.
- 10 votes
she is treading on shaky ground by discriminating against someone based on their political views.
No she's not.
Protection from discrimination does not extend to idiots. Unless IDIOT is an ethnicity now.
She has every right to toss that moron out of her place of business.
- 23 votes
There's nothing the senator can do about it, dim-witted bigots aren't one of the groups protected from discrimination. Nothing the restaurant owner did violated the rights of the homophobic moron, unlike everything the senator does to violate the rights of the LGBT community.
- 15 votes
So when restaurant owners turn away Democrats now for being pro-gay, y'all gonna be ok with that?
- 11 votes
No she's not.
Protection from discrimination does not extend to idiots. Unless IDIOT is an ethnicity now.
She has every right to toss that moron out of her place of business.
Because you say so? So discrimination is okay for some, but not for others, as long as it's YOUR opinion that's being protected?
Funny thing is, I agree with you, but I happen to agree that people have a right to their own property, no exceptions.
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I get what you're saying. It's fighting discrimination with discrimination. Seems counterproductive. This man does not belong to a protected class so it's different. She's not discriminating based on something outside of his control (race, sex, age, etc.). She's basing it on the fact that he is a repulsive human being.
I applaud her. She stood up for her beliefs and let him know that being a bigot and spreading false information as an elected politician is NOT ok.
- 19 votes
So when restaurant owners turn away Democrats now for being pro-gay, y'all gonna be ok with that?
Perfectly. Know your constitutional rights and exercise them whenever you want to.
Aside from that, you're more than welcome to put a sign out in front of your business that says Democrats aren't welcomed. You can choose to lose money and go out of business whenever you want.
To be perfectly honest with you as far as I'm concerned, it would be doing me, and my personal agenda, a tremendous favor.
- 15 votes
There are two big problems:
1. This is a false equivalency that you are alluding to. There is no double standard between tossing out an idiot and tossing out someone for the color of their skin because those two things are not remotely the same.
2. It was a different time in the 1920's with the CRA was passed.
The country was over run by domestic terrorism hate groups. Like it or not, that's exactly what the Klan was.
Even people who were not bigots had to turn away minorities because they were afraid of violent (and deadly) reprisals from well organized gangs of thugs.
The CRA presented a way to make an end run around a great deal of violence, blood shed and make it much harder for hate groups to keep black persons oppressed.
You may not have been alive during the civil rights era, or you may not have been living in an area that was overrun by entrenched networks of organized hate bigots.
The cemetary where most of my family lies in repose is filled with two things: My relatives and a large portion of the local KKK during that time period.
They even took up public offerings at the church. I was told by members of my own extended family that if I so much as flirted with a minority person of any kind, they would kill both of us. They weren't just making empty threats.
The strangle hold they had on that community was no different than the hold kept on communities across the united states.
The CRA forcing businesses to open their doors to minority persons forced people to interact, it made it easier for the bigots to be identified and dealt with.
That's no small thing.
- 10 votes
Like I said I'm not familiar with civil rights laws, so I have another question based on some of your responses.
This man does not belong to a protected class so it's different.
Is the only UN-protected "class" white males? Is there an official list somewhere of the "protected" classes? If the senator had been a woman who was spouting off anti-homosexual rhetoric on a TV program and was refused service by the restauranteur, then would the senator have a case?
So the country club that turns away certain segments of society from becoming members would be lambasted for doing similar actions as this restauranteur......But, let's say this country club claims that the person was refused membership because of his political views (even though it's probably for his ethnicity), but the country club CLAIMS it's for his political views. It that okay with you guys?
- 4 votes
Some (above) argued that it is hypocritical to exclude democrats because they might be pro-gay when not allowing people to do the same for republicans being anti-gay.
The problem with the analogy is that the republicans would, in this case, be against civil rights and advocating hatred, distrust and spreading actual lies. Then, when called out on it (like Bachmann's retardation-HPV-vaccine link) they say "just saying what I heard". If what you heard is wrong, and you spread it because you didn't research it, then it makes YOU the liar.
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Is the only UN-protected "class" white males?
No. You cannot be discriminated against by race. Period. That means white too.
There doesn't need to be a list, all races are covered.
If the senator had been a woman
In this instance, he was not removed because of his gender. He was removed because of his offending remarks.
There is however a prohibition against gender discrimination in the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
Let's say this country club claims that the person was refused membership because of his political views (even though it's probably for his ethnicity), but the country club CLAIMS it's for his political views.
If it was because of his political views, then its perfectly legal to do.
HOWEVER, if it can be proven in a court of law that it was due to ethnic bigotry, then they did so illegally.
It that okay with you guys?
Can you clarify this question?
If you are saying if it is OK with me (or the law) that someone skirt the CRA by feigning different motives, then NO. It is not.
If you are asking if it is OK to remove a person for some part of their political beliefs or personal character, then OF COURSE.
- 11 votes
you're more than welcome to put a sign out in front of your business that says Democrats aren't welcomed.
I wasn't really going for a party line issue here, how about if the sign said "No pro-gay people allowed"? I bet people would flip the hell out.
- 1 vote
Is the only UN-protected "class" white males?
Ha, it's like some white males think "they" aren't a member of a race but everyone esle is.
- 4 votes
Spike, I certainly wouldn't agree with the passive-aggressive approach that you spoke of. If you serve cops, and you don't like cops, what would you do, spit on their hamburger? I know it happens, but it isn't right.
Chris, thanks for explaining the legal parameters of discrimination laws. Some still don't get it, but you obviously do.
cannonballer, you ask:
So when restaurant owners turn away Democrats now for being pro-gay, y'all gonna be ok with that?
I'm not okay with it, except that if it was me, I would be okay with it, because if the restaurant owner is bigoted or against civil rights, I wouldn't patronize his restaurant anyway. From a legal standpoint, I'm okay with it because it wouldn't be illegal to my knowledge. If the sign just said NO DEMOCRATS, I'd be fine with that, too, because it would probably be bankrupt before too long, and the food wouldn't be too fresh in the meantime. If it said NO REPUBLICANS, same answer. If it said NO BIGOTS, I'd be fine with that because the bigots would still go there, but they would keep their bigoted views to themselves. If it said NO GAYS, their asses would get sued off and they would be out of business soon also. Have I coverered all the possible permutations?
My, we have a lot of armchair attorneys in here tonight, don't we? Too bad there's nobody we can bill for $300 an hour. Chris, where did you get your law degree, and how is it you have time to go on the Vine? /sarcasm
The reality is that the law varies from state to state. My husband once called the local human rights commission when he was thrown out of a bar for making an antiunion remark. He was told the bartender was definitely in the wrong, but he decided not to waste his time making an issue out of something that petty. I know that if I was a local, I would boycott that restaurant, not out of the gay issue, but out of the freedom of speech issue.
I know that if I was a local, I would boycott that restaurant, not out of the gay issue, but out of the freedom of speech issue.
And you'd lose.
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No, Oom, the reality is that this is federal law, and that the refusal of service could be considered illegal:
In cases in which the patron is not a member of a federally protected class, the question generally turns on whether the business's refusal of service was arbitrary, or whether the business had a specific interest in refusing service. For example, in a recent case, a California court decided that a motorcycle club had no discrimination claim against a sports bar that had denied members admission to the bar because they refused to remove their "colors," or patches, which signified club membership. The court held that the refusal of service was not based on the club members' unconventional dress, but was to protect a legitimate business interest in preventing fights between rival club members.
http://www.legalzoom.com/us-law/equal-rights/right-refuse-service
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For example, in a recent case, a California court decided that a motorcycle club had no discrimination claim against a sports bar that had denied members admission
Did you miss the "had no discrimination claim" part?
- 3 votes
trm:
Not "missed"
ignored.
They shoot themselves in the foot like that at every turn, and then gloat about it.
- 2 votes
What a concept....we starve Republicans until they decide to leave, and start their own utopian society, where they pay no taxes, rip each other off with ponzi schemes, bribe each other just for fun, swap wives because it's easier than carrying on affairs, charge each other outrageous fees on everything from water to air, and make church a subscription service, available 24/7, and of course, sins can be forgiven for the low low price of $9.99 per offense!
Sorry...I was just imagining paradise, and it had not a single Republican in it.
- 16 votes
I think Martha should run against the Idiot. She would win hands down.
- 8 votes
Oh Gray, I love your fantasy. Sadly, neocons fantasize about a world without liberals.
- 1 vote
You mean you're actually standing up for private property rights? People have a right not to allow those with opposing views in their business? Isn't that illegal according to anti-discrimination laws?
BTW, I'd throw him out of my business too, if it were legal to do so.
- 5 votes
Anti-discrimination laws extend only to protected classes... race, sex, national origin, etc.
- 14 votes
Anti-discrimination laws extend only to protected classes... race, sex, national origin, etc.
Prove it, Counselor.
Prove it, Counselor.
I am not an attorney nor do I play one on the Vine, but this is pretty clear and easy for those with any bit of common sense about the American legal system.
Protected class is a term used in United States anti-discrimination law. The term describes characteristics or factors which can not be targeted for discrimination and harassment. The following characteristics are considered "Protected Classes" and persons cannot be discriminated against based on these characteristics:
Race - Federal: Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the Civil Rights Act of 1866
Color - Federal: Civil Rights Act of 1964
Religion - Federal: Civil Rights Act of 1964
National origin - Federal: Civil Rights Act of 1964
Age (40 and over) - Federal: Age Discrimination in Employment Act of 1967
Sex - Federal: Equal Pay Act of 1963 & Civil Rights Act of 1964
Familial status (Housing, cannot discriminate for having children, exception for senior housing)
Disability status - Federal: Vocational Rehabilitation and Other Rehabilitation Services of 1973 & Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990
Veteran status - Federal Vietnam Era Veterans Readjustment Assistance Act of 1974
Genetic information - Federal: Genetic Information Nondiscrimination Act
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protected_class
And yes, while that was from Wikipedia, it is factual information, not "legal advice."
So the burden now shifts to YOU to prove that there are other anti-discrimination laws that protect people outside/beyond these classes. BTW, that will need to be found in FEDERAL statutes, because it is a federal issue.
- 7 votes
Indians have a saying: "Dumb White Guy who pees in the Wind, may get free Yellow Shower." Something like that.
- 11 votes
These SOB want a right to work state, and bust the unions. So, I think this lady is correct in serving who she wants in her restaurant. Besides, he is using old opinions from the CDC, and, GOP members don't believe in science. Example: Climate Change......Go Figure why this issue alone is this senators main gripe.
- 8 votes
These SOB want a right to work state, and bust the unions. So, I think this lady is correct in serving who she wants in her restaurant.
I doubt the restaurant owner opposes him for his Union views. I doubt she is welcoming a Union into her restaurant.
- 2 votes
".............so I just stood up to a bully."
The Kochsucking dodo @!$%# crazy TParty has built their hate-fueled reputations on bullying.
It's time they learned that we, the American people, have reached the point of enough is enough and will now stand up and fight back. Bullying, on any level, is not going to be tolerated or, in this case, fed.
A magnificent thumbs up to Martha Boggs.
- 8 votes
I was beginning to believe EVERYBODY n TN was nuts. Thank god for the manager at the Bistro at Bijou. Martha Biggs should get the person of the week award. If ever I go to Nashville, I’ll for sure visit her establishment.
How long before some damned christian firebombs the place? I wish her and the business well.
- 9 votes
It's the owner's restaurant, refusing someone's business is their right. Whether the anti or pro gay rights senator that gets the boot, the owners should do it in a classy way and not make a scene.
- 7 votes
Why not make a scene? He had no compunction about sharing his bigoted views. Why should she hesitate to make her pro-civil rights position known in her own restaurant? If I had a chance to use a stupid bigot against the forces of bigotry, I would do it. It's hard to imagine a better way of fighting bigotry than to expose a bigot at his lowest point. When your opponent lowers his guard, it's the best time to punch.
- 1 vote
Why not make a scene?
When a business owner refuses service to someone over political views it is not needed for them to yell it out and encourage the joint to boo them. Why not encourage the bar to spit on the person too?
Refusing a person's business is the owner's right. However, just because you disagree with a person's views and are offended by them does not mean you should mock them and encourage the other patrons to do the same.
Other times it will be the owner giving the boot to a senator that supports gay marriage. Would it be right for the owner to refuse service, start to mock him, yell to the crowd what he voted for and dramatically throw them out?
It's called class. Tell the guy you don't want his business and not to come back. Nothing wrong with that. Causing a scene, yelling to the restaurant why this person offends you and how you're throwing them out is a little out of line. There is a place for community ostracism, I'm not sure the owner yelling it out to the joint is the best way.
- 4 votes
I'm taking bets that her business doubles in the next 2 weeks as the news in leaked out that she booted the Senator out of her establishment.
- 11 votes
Hurray for Martha Boggs, this is a riot. Remember when Rand Paul wiggled around the question whether he supported civil rights and he kept using weasel words to say a person has the right to serve customers of their choosing, i.e. not blacks.
Hurray, Hurray for Martha
That said, I predict that neocon restaurant owners will turn the other cheek and throw out liberals, gays, single women, muslims..... anyone they hate. Sort of a reverse OWS.
- 9 votes
I am a professional, liberal, single widow who will not do business of any kind with a business who has Fox news on the big tube, customers are sitting around calling the President an N, conspiracy talk about how the country has never been this bad before, and random hate talk about fags,flags, and Muslims. Unfortunately, in the area I live in this is getting sparser and sparser. I don't have to be thrown out of a neocon restaurant or business, I will leave on my own and never frequent the place again. I doubt they miss my business, and lots of their customers are on the government teat and probably won't vote anyway, except out of rage and hate.
- 6 votes
I predict that neocon restaurant owners will turn the other cheek and throw out liberals...
That would be fine with me--I don't want to give them any money anyway. :-)
- 4 votes
I am a professional, conservative, married person who will not do business of any kind with a business who has MSNBC on the big tube, customers are sitting complaining that any and all criticism of the president MUST be rooted in racsim, naive talk about how the country has never been better than now, and random hate talk about the military and Christians. Fortunately, in the area I live, businesses like these are getting sparser and sparser. I don't have to be thrown out of a socialist restaurant or business, I will leave on my own and never frequent the place again. I doubt they miss my business, and lots of their customers are on the government teat and probably won't vote anyway, except out of rage and hate.
Now go ahead an villify my post as divisive while hoilding hers up as an example.
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Why would anyone villify your position, just as liberals have every right to choose not to be bombarded with false information and hypocrisy from Faux News you have every right to not desire to watch MSNBC. That's the benefit of living in a free country. What you don't have is the right to insist that others don't have the same rights as you do just because they're of a differing lifestyle, religion, race, creed, or sexuality.
- 8 votes
Alpha, where do you live, maybe we could just trade places? Glad you read my post.
- 3 votes
Gahanna Ohio.
What you don't have is the right to insist that others don't have the same rights as you do just because they're of a differing lifestyle, religion, race, creed, or sexuality.
I am going to assume that you were using "you" in the general sense, because I have CERTAINLY not insisted on any such idea. Also, way to suggest that Fox is biased (which it is) while not suggesting MSNBC is biased (which it is.)
- 2 votes
Yes, the you was a general "you" and not any person in particular. And as for your claim that Faux News isn't biased, like anyone believes that utter nonsense other than those brainwashed by watching it constantly.
- 3 votes
Ummmm, where do I claim that Fox News isn't biased? I said:
way to suggest that Fox is biased (which it is)
How about reading the post before getting all indignant. I flat out said that it was biased. I was merely stating that MSNBC is also biased.
- 1 vote
AlphaTrion posted this comment:
I am a professional, conservative, married person who will not do business of any kind with a business who has MSNBC on the big tube, customers are sitting complaining that any and all criticism of the president MUST be rooted in racsim, naive talk about how the country has never been better than now, and random hate talk about the military and Christians. Fortunately, in the area I live, businesses like these are getting sparser and sparser. I don't have to be thrown out of a socialist restaurant or business, I will leave on my own and never frequent the place again. I doubt they miss my business, and lots of their customers are on the government teat and probably won't vote anyway, except out of rage and hate.
What Alphatrion did was to take another newsvine member's post (Lola - Ohio) and change specific words in her comments. From my perspective, Alphatrion was attempting to neutralize her remarks and to make it appear that his outrage was based on a similar ethical standard as hers.
This is a classic neocon tactic to use their opponents words against them. Note, he added little to the discussion. It is a diversionary tactic.
Read George Lakoff's works and you will begin to understand how neocons are not only rewriting history but redefining the etymology of words. For example, they love to say America is a Republic when in reality it is a democratic republic. (see Thom Hartmann -- article http://www.thomhartmann.com/forum/2010/03/usa-democracy-or-republic).
Personally, I find this approach disingenuous.
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Actually what I did was point out that people on Newsvine scream about partisanship while participating in it themseves. I used her own words, slightly changed, to show that you would be outraged (and you have just proven my point by getting all indignant and calling it a neocon tactic) if the situation were reversed.
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is "indignant" on your word-a-day calendar for today?
Hurry and get some use out of it... Day's almost over!
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For example, they love to say America is a Republic when in reality it is a democratic republic
Do us a favor - recite the Pledge of Allegiance.
is "indignant" on your word-a-day calendar for today?
Thanks for the laugh, Don'tcha!
- 1 vote
is "indignant" on your word-a-day calendar for today?
No, it is just the best word to describe how smug, liberal, pseudo-intellectuals act.
- 2 votes
I am sorry AlphaTrion, just where in my post did you find indignation?
For example, they love to say America is a Republic when in reality it is a democratic republic.
Actually, we are a constitutional republic, not a democratic republic.
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ErinNJ:
Actually, we are a constitutional republic, not a democratic republic.
Erin, I provide a source for my belief that we are a democratic republic. Could you provide a source for your belief that we are a constitutional republic? I am always open to new information. Thanks.
Susan, the simple fact that we are governed by a Constitution, which is the foundation of our laws and government, is proof enough.
- 4 votes
I am sorry AlphaTrion, just where in my post did you find indignation?
Really? Your entire post smacks of it.
Also, a progressive radio talk show host is hardly an unbiased "source."
- 1 vote
AlphaTtrion: Thom Hartmann is much more than a "radio talk show host." He is a businessman, he is an author of several books, he is a Thomas Jefferson scholar, he is a trained psychologist and more. But, I will let you research that.
- 2 votes
AlphaTrion: If my comments smack of indignation, what do yours smack of?
- 1 vote
Erin, many countries have constitutions, how does that make it a republic?
- 1 vote
Susan, think of the Pledge of Allegiance: "I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which stands..."
Honestly, did you even go to civics class?
A constitutional republic is a state in which the head of state and other officials are representatives of the people and must govern according to existing constitutional law that limits the government's power over all of its citizens. Because the head of the state is elected, it is a republic and not a monarchy.
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Erin, I was not looking for a fight. Yes, I did take civics class and many other classes. But, that was many years ago and in that class, I was encouraged to think for myself.
My comments are observations. My comments stem from my own perspective. I am not an historian but I do try to read many authors, topics and perspectives.
I have also taken classes in communication. Communication is difficult but in order for communication to be somewhat successful, people in conversation need to share or understand the definitions of the words being used before a conversation can progress.
I am concerned that some people have decided to drop the word Democracy when they speak of our form of government -- which I believe is a constitutionally-limited representative democratic republic. In shorthand, I believe we are a Democracy.
- 2 votes
The senator has no logical footing -- you know what's WORSE for your health? Being a male.
Males consistently engage in risky behaviour. Especially teenagers.
The CDC maintains that too.
- 11 votes
The Bistro should have a sign up saying:
No Shirt,
No Shoes,
No Equal Treatment for Gays,
No Service.
- 9 votes
Actully the restaurant should have a sign up saying they have been put out of busness. This type of discrimination is ilegal and they should have their license removed.
- 3 votes
I agree Steven of Coulterville.
But the bigger issue is, what is an anti-gay senator doing in a gay-friendly part of town and a restaurant frequented by gay people with gay wait-staff?
Sounds like a closet case looking to do a little recognizance on the side.
- 4 votes
JJM, agreed-it's their right to refuse service. But remember that's a two way street.
- 1 vote
Last I heard being a homophobe isn't a "protected class" as far as discrimination goes, kind of like being gay.
- 5 votes
Frank...
Not according to ANYBODY.
He was denied service because the owner thinks he is an @!$%#, not because he was black, or old, or handicapped, etc. etc. etc.
If someone comes into my bar and is a douchebag, It is well within my rights to tell him that I do not want his business and ask him to leave the place... ("douchebag" is NOT a protected class)
- 10 votes
This type of discrimination is ilegal and they should have their license removed.
Actually, no it's not. But thanks for playing.
- 7 votes
Frank Gruden, one should not go around making statements on what is legal and what is not when they have no @!$%#ing idea what they are talking about. Actually, that could get a person sued in some circumstances.
- 2 votes
Actully the restaurant should have a sign up saying they have been put out of busness. This type of discrimination is ilegal and they should have their license removed.
Yup they can. They can refuse service to anybody they want as long as it's not on the basis of race, religion, sexual orientation or national origin.
I'm sure there were white peeps at the restaurant so that rules race out.
I'm sure there was at least one Christian at the restaurant so that rules religio out too.
I'm sure there were both gays and straight at the restaurant because just because it's known as a gay restaurant doesn't mean only gays patron it, not to mention there's people who are bi too, so that rules sexual orientation out.
And lastly I'm sure there were many Americans at the restaurant so I'm sure there was no discrimination based on national origin.
That leaves... drums please...... no service for homophobes!!!
- 4 votes
This type of discrimination is ilegal and they should have their license removed.
No it's not. You can refuse service to a person because of political views.
If a business owner down South refused service to Obama supporters would it be considered acceptable discrimination based on politics or racial discrimination because it would effectively eliminate Blacks from dining there?
- 2 votes
Well why don't you sue me @!$%#.
Frank Gruden, you are suspended for a day for violating rule # 1 of the Code of Honor.
- 7 votes
Good for her; she is a hero not to serve this racist radical tea party republican. shame on him and the republican party for letting this racist obstructionist to continue on when making unacceptable sick comments as insulting as described and labeling Americans as this radical. It just was not necessary to use a strategy as ugly as described.
- 1 vote
As a business owner, it is her right to refuse service to anyone she choses. We should keep this in mind the next time a business owner is raked over the coals for refusing to serve someone with a progressive agenda.
- 4 votes
You mean something like Allen West's rant about how liberals should get the hell out of the country?
- 4 votes
Ummm ... No. I mean like when a business owner is raked over the coals for refusing to serve someone with a progressive agenda. How you made the leap from that to your comment is beyond me.
- 1 vote
Ummm ... No. I mean like when a business owner is raked over the coals for refusing to serve someone with a progressive agenda.
Fine. No problem. I'm sure the owner will be very upset by all of the gay-basher business she'll be losing at her restaurant. (but I'd be willing to bet she sees a surge in business)
Why don't you ask how the people on Fox "news" blog feel about this story? Had the tables been turned, they'd be high-fiving each other and boasting about how they'll all start frequenting this restaurant because of how the owner stood up to the dirty libbie.
- 4 votes
Why don't you ask how the people on Fox "news" blog feel about this story?
Because I don't frequent that blog. You're probably right though, they would be high fiving each other. I am always amused when a neutral comment is blasted as evil right wing propaganda.
- 1 vote
Why don't you ask how the people on Fox "news" blog feel about this story?
Because I don't frequent that blog. You're probably right though, they would be high fiving each other. I am always amused when a neutral comment is blasted as evil right wing propaganda.
- 1 vote
It's the restaurant owner's right to refuse service to anyone.
You liberals remember that when a "protected class" member gets refused service.
And aids affects homosexuals vastly more than hetrosexuals. It's science. Not their fault; it's biology.
- 1 vote
It's the restaurant owner's right to refuse service to anyone.
WRONG. A restaurant is considered a place of public accommodation, and cannot legally refuse to serve anyone without good reason, such as being abusive/disruptive, or not paying for his/her food.
You liberals remember that when a "protected class" member gets refused service.
You conservatives should remember whose ass will be grass if you discriminate, especially against someone in a protected class. HINT: it won't be the victim's!
And aids affects homosexuals vastly more than hetrosexuals. It's science. Not their fault; it's biology.
Really? Then how do you explain that 85% of all new HIV/AIDS cases worldwide are among heterosexuals? THAT'S science.
I guess it's not your fault that you are so misinformed; it must be biology.
- 9 votes
Show me one instance of a business owner being convicted for refusing service. (didn't think so) If it were the case, the guy in this story would have a case.
It's their right. You might not like it. But that's probably because you're not a strategic thinker; you fire on emotion, not logic.
Link for your bs claim of 85%? The CDC doesn't agree with you.
- 2 votes
It's the restaurant owner's right to refuse service to anyone.
Actually, Erin. He's right on that one (really @!$%#ing wrong on everything else).
As long as it's based on a personal reason (being an @!$%#, BO, improper dress, etc.), not an uncontrollable reason (race, sex, handicap, sexual orientation, etc.) or religious preference, you can refuse service to anyone, for any reason. It might not be good for business, but it's not illegal.
- 5 votes
I love the smell of pi$$ed off extremist in the morning. It smells like victory.
I'm not encumbered by ideology. You should try it.
- 1 vote
You're obviously "not encumbered" by facts either...
carry on.
- 2 votes
You're obviously "not encumbered" by facts either... carry on.
I asked for a link and you guys refuse. Who's light on the facts? LOL
And I'm not a conservative. I don't care who you wed. I don't go to church. I won't ever tell you what to do.
I just want a strong America-the kind that Bill Clinton and Ron Reagan presided over.
Actually, Rational Brent, I did some research, and he's NOT "right on that one". Restaurants are public accommodations, and cannot refuse service without a very good reason, such as the ones I stated. It is called discrimination.
Does a Restaurant Have the Unrestricted Right to Refuse Service to Specific Patrons?
No. The Civil Rights Act of 1964 explicitly prohibits restaurants from refusing service to patrons on the basis of race, color, religion, or natural origin. In addition, most courts don’t allow restaurants to refuse service to patrons based on extremely arbitrary conditions. For example, a person likely can’t be refused service due to having a lazy eye.
But Aren’t Restaurants Considered Private Property?
Yes, however they are also considered places of public accommodation. In other words, the primary purpose of a restaurant is to sell food to the general public, which necessarily requires susceptibility to equal protection laws. Therefore, a restaurant’s existence as private property does not excuse an unjustified refusal of service. This can be contrasted to a nightclub, which usually caters itself to a specific group of clientele based on age and social status.
So Are “We Reserve the Right to Refuse Service to Anyone” Signs in Restaurants Legal?
Yes, however they still do not give a restaurant the power to refuse service on the basis of race, color, religion, or natural origin. These signs also do not preclude a court from finding other arbitrary refusals of service to be discriminatory. Simply put, restaurants that carry a “Right to Refuse Service” sign are subject to the same laws as restaurants without one.
What Conditions Allow a Restaurant to Refuse Service?
There a number of legitimate reasons for a restaurant to refuse service, some of which include:
- Patrons who are unreasonably rowdy or causing trouble
- Patrons that may overfill capacity if let in
- Patrons who come in just before closing time or when the kitchen is closed
- Patrons accompanied by large groups of non-customers looking to sit in
- Patrons lacking adequate hygiene (e.g. excess dirt, extreme body odor, etc.)
In most cases, refusal of service is warranted where a customer’s presence in the restaurant detracts from the safety, welfare, and well-being of other patrons and the restaurant itself.
http://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/restaurants-right-to-refuse-service.html
- 3 votes
The link you asked for was something that I actually agreed with, so why would I provide a link?
Can you provide a link to your fantasy HIV "facts"? (I seem to recall seeing Erin ask YOU for one as well)
- 2 votes
Erin, correct. They can't say "I don't want to serve men" or "I don't want to serve orientals" or they would be (correctly) sued.
And I don't have a problem with her refusing to serve the guy in the story for the reason she stated.
WITHIN REASON, they can refuse service to anyone they want.
DYPHJ:
- 1 vote
"very good reason"?
What does that even mean?
If Glen Beck and Rush Limbaugh belly up (haha, couldn't help the "belly up" reference, sorry) to my bar and ask me for a drink, I am well within my rights to deny them service simply because I find them to be offensive @!$%#s. (If I were to do it because they were fat, THAT would be discrimination. See the difference?)
- 4 votes
It keeps cutting my link off. WTF?
Statistically, AIDS hits gay men and intervenous drug users at a hugely disproportianal rate.
I think some people (with bleeding hearts) get wrapped around tha axel on the "It's a gay disease" phrase. I'm not saying they deserve it or bring it on themselves.
It affects straights as well, just not as easily, because of BIOLOGY. Blood transfers during intervenous drug use and anal sex are the two biggies.
Can't link-this site won't let me. Can't even paste a site.
- 1 vote
On your Rush and Beck thing, yes. I do see it. I could say the same to Sgt Schultz, Eugene Robison or KO for the same reason.
Where does that get us?
No, Rational Brent, she can't refuse service "within reason" -- she must have a very good reason, such as the patron being disruptive/abusive, not paying his/her bill on previous visits, etc., or one of the reasons listed in the quoted section of my previous post.
DYPHJ: You may think you are within your rights to refuse to serve them, but they are within their rights to sue you for discrimination -- and they would probably win.
However, there is no law that says you must give them good service, so how you serve them is up to you.
- 4 votes
Erin, when I say "within reason", I am agreeing with the ones you listed above. I'm expecting a little bit of common sense here. No offense, I am agreeing with you.
We must also remember to take into account that most business owners aren't stupid enough to deny service without using one of those reasons, regardless of the actual reason.
I think 'his presence would be disruptive to my employees and my clientele" would suffice, especially if the employees refused to work until he leaved. That might pass.
- 2 votes
If I refuse to serve anyone wearing a blue shirt, because I don't like blue shirts, I think that would be legal. Dumb, yes, but legal. It's not a protected class to wear a blue shirt. But it's not a "good" reason. I think the answer is I could legally do that.
- 2 votes
In actuality, that happens all the time. It's called a dress code.
Try to get into a nice restaurant or nightclub wearing a t-shirt and sandals sometime... (but when they turn you away, be sure to try and sue 'em for it, since you were "discriminated against")
Rational Brent-
I saw on your profile that you have only been here a month so you're probably still in the Greenhouse. It won't let you post links yet, but be patient and you soon will.
I think we are missing something here. The woman refused service not because of his POLITICAL opinions were different than hers.
But because he has been saying DISHONEST, DEFAMATORY things that incite HATRED and DISCRIMINATION for a particular group of people. And it just so happens that the people he has been targetting are also her customers and even her employees.
I do not think that someone shouldbe refused service for having a difference of opinon about political matters or being a different religion or race or gender etc.
But if I own a business that serves Christians and employs Christians and there is a very vocal imam who publically rants against Christians and calls them names, spreads lies about them, incites hatred against them and he were to walk into my place of business you can be SURE I will do exactly what this woman did.
She was trying to keep the peace in her own place of business.
- 6 votes
I think you are now treading onto dangerous ground, because that sounds like discrimation against someone based on their religion, and even if it technically is based on something other than the persons religion, i.e. their dishonesty, I would never advise you to do it if I were your lawyer, because it's too close a call. You would likely get sued and it would be a difficult case to defend.
If your religion requires you to hate, which is more appropriate, allowing the expression of your discriminatory hate, because that's your protected religion, or are the religious required to shelve their discriminatory hate, because discrimination is wrong?
The answer seems simple to me.
I think you are now treading onto dangerous ground, because that sounds like discrimation against someone based on their religion, and even if it technically is based on something other than the persons religion, i.e. their dishonesty, I would never advise you to do it if I were your lawyer, because it's too close a call. You would likely get sued and it would be a difficult case to defend.
So you're saying that a restaurant owner would lose a discrimination suit brought by the Westboro Baptist Church if he refused to rent a dining room to them? Because their religous beliefs (God hates gays) are being discriminated against?
Gee, maybe I should found a religion.
- 2 votes
I can understand why she did this, and if I was her I’d want to do the same thing, but I don’t think it’s a step in the right direction to do this. Now, if he was stating his views allowed and upsetting the customers, that’s a different story, but I think overall this is the exact excuse bigots want and need for imposing their own discriminatory legislation and how we’re “pushing” our agenda on people. I would say that this man, by specifically going into a gay friendly neighbourhood, was looking for a fight and an excuse to be the “victim” and he was given one on a platter.
I say smile and be friendly, it will only confuse them more! When I’ve done petitioning on the streets you wouldn’t believe the ridiculous drivel people have come up to my face and said, that gays are responsible for the Ho Chi Ming Massacre, that we’[re degenerates and deserve to be locked up for the good of society and on and on, but we’re told to just smile and move on, mostly because more than anything these people want a fight that they can play the victim to, that we’re stifling their “free speech”.
So yes, she had the right to do this. But just because you have the right to do something, doesn’t necessarily mean it is the right thing to do.
- 2 votes
Gay people are people. Sadly some forget this fact and try to impose their will on them.
- 4 votes
I applaud the owner for standing up for her convictions, but legally she was wrong to refuse service. It might have been better to let him sit and order, and make the service so bad that he would want to leave on his own (spilling food and/or drink on him "accidentally" might have helped).
It's like the Westboro Baptist Church First Amendment ruling: while I hate what they have to say, they certainly have a right to say it, because if they take that right away from Westboro, it could be taken away from anyone.
- 3 votes
She can refuse service based on whatever she wants so long as it does not violate 'protected classes' - such as race, gender, age, etc etc.
"Bigot" isn't a protected class, thankfully.
- 5 votes
Shuklack, read my comment #22.7. If she refuses service to anyone, she'd better have a very good reason -- and not liking someone's politics, or considering someone a homophobe, are not very good ones. If he was being disruptive or abusive, she might have a leg to stand on.
- 5 votes
I dunno, I teeter here. If she were denying him because he was white, or because her had red hair, or was Nigerian, then she is denying him based on something he can't change, and that WOULD be illegal, I don't think this is, so long as she lets other white people in. Can conservative be a protected class? Wouldn't that be funny!
Here, she's actually familiar with the individual, and simply doesn't want someone with his beliefs in her business. That could be a slippery slope, suppose only conservatives owned hospitals, and refused to allow entry to liberals?
But having him in and then giving him crappy service is bad too, because how is he to know it was because he's a bigot, and not because the restaurant is simply badly run? Then she hurts her business by trying to be accommodating, because I guarantee he will express his opinion on her business to others.
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